Οι συχνότεροι μύθοι του BDSM

Το ξέρω ότι δεν απευθυνόσουν μόνο σε μένα.
Αλλά προτίμησα να "μιλήσουμε" οι δυο μας, για να μην σηκωθεί καμία "μύγα".
Ως προς τα υπόλοιπα που έγραψες, απλά συντάσσομαι   - εκτός απ' το στα έλεγα στη @didina, εγώ δεν της έχω πει ποτέ, τίποτε χαχα   -

 

Κάποιοι αχρείοι...μην ασχολείστε, πεταμένα λεφτά...χαχαχα  

 

αμα δεν γλείψεις εεεεε παινέψεις το σπίτι σου, θα πέσει να σε πλακώσει ..

 

The BDSM Lies

Author: Jay Wiseman, Lady Green, Glen the Paramedic and Dale the Actress. (This "sanitized" version by GlitterOne) ©

Used With The Permission Of The Authors



The Great Lies of BDSM (and a few others)...

...that we tell straight people:
It's a fashion statement
It's for a crafts project
I fell off my bicycle

...that we tell each other:
I've never even fantasized about doing that
I just do this for fun. I don't need it
Mistress, I'll do anything you want

...that we tell ourselves:
I'm normal
I always stop when I feel genuine anger
I only play with people I respect
I'm doing this for healthy reasons

...that dominant men tell submissive women:
I think of women as equals
I have a healty relationship with my mother
I truly believe that it takes a strong woman to submit

...that submissive women tell dominant men:
I don't have any unresolved issues regarding my father
It's enough to serve you, Master. I don't need to get off
I really want you to be in charge
I love it when you ejaculate in my mouth
Licking your feet and bottom really turns me on
I like your pot belly
You own me body and soul

...that submissive men tell dominant women:
I'll do anything you want
I exist only to serve you
I don't care about getting off
I regard women as superior beings
You're beautiful to me
I really get off on doing housework for you
My wife knows that I do this

...that dominant women tell submissive men:
I basically like men
Wearing high heels makes me feel more powerful
I can't top anybody who doesn't turn me on
I never switch
I love giving golden showers

...that we tell vanilla prospective play partners:
It's not pain. It's just strong sensation
This is fundamentally a nurturing activity
Submission is empowering
You need to explore this side of yourself

...that dominant women tell each other:
I have the perfect slave
I feel that you and I are part of a Sisterhood
I can stay in top space while I'm "receiving"

...that submissive women tell each other:
My Master takes good care of me
I'm not really an exhibitionist
I don't feel competitive towards other submissives
It's OK with me if you play with my Master

...that dominant, heterosexual men tell each other:
My slave never says no to me
Some of my best friends are submissive men
When I watch you play at a party, I don't secretly hope that you'll screw up and everyone will notice
I can still be dominant after I've had an orgasm

...that submissive, heterosexual men tell each other:
The most important thing is to serve the Mistress
I never tell her what to do
I've never gone to a professional Mistress
I love it when my Mistress won't let me come for days
I don't think my Mistress is fat
I don't mind that you can take more pain than I can
I really believe that my mission in life is to serve women
I really like going down on my Mistress during her period

...that bi switches tell each other:
I truly don't care which gender I play with
I'm not at all homophobic
I separate sex from SM
Being bi is the best of both worlds
I only play with people I feel intimate with
I only play with other switches

...that professional Mistresses tell each other:
Business is good
I never have sex with a client
Business is bad
I always stick to my specialty and refer out clients who want other things
I'd do this even if I wasn't getting paid
I never need to bottom
I'm always in control of the session
I'm a good businesswoman
My lover doesn't mind that I do this
It was my choice to leave my last straight job

And, finally, the three great lies that vanilla people tell SM people:
Hearing about this doesn't shock me
I know other people who are into this
We negotiate everything too

 

Σαν σήμερα, 25 χρόνια πριν, άνοιξε για όλους το πρωτοκολλο www.
Μύθος = Σήμερα έχει "γενέθλια" το bdsm στην Ελλάδα.

 

Μύθος:
Οι Κυρίαρχες γυναίκες δεν κάνουν σεξ με τους υποτακτικους τους γιατί η διείσδυση είναι κυριαρχικη πράξη.  

 

Διείσδυση από ποιον σε ποιον;

 

πάντος γενικα υπαρχει μια ταση στις κυριαρχες γυναικες να μην δεχονται διεισδυση απο τον υ ....και το παροδοξο για μενα ειναι οτι ενω υπαρχει αμοιβαια ελξη με τον υ προτιμουν να δεχθουν διεισδυση απο καποιον αλλο για να ταπεινωσουν τον υ... 

 

Ο υποτακτικός στην Κύρια του.

 

ΒΡΕ, τι πάθαμε, άλλο ταπείνωση στο BDSM και άλλο να μην πηδάς το υπό από επιλογή.

 

με βραχυκυλωσες.....  την ταπεινωση την καταλαβενω...(κανω προοδους) εκεινο που δεν καταλαβα ειναι οτι μια κυριαρχη για να εχει εναν υ υπαρχει καποια αμοιβαια ελξη....και εκει ειναι που δεν καταλαβαινω πως μπορει να υπαρξει αρνηση διεισδυσης...??? 

 

Για τους δικούς της λόγους, δε γνωρίζω, να ξες ό,τι το BDSM, δεν είναι μόνο διείσδυση.