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Color Test for submission

Συζήτηση στο φόρουμ 'Νέοι στον χώρο του BDSM' που ξεκίνησε από το μέλος DeSade, στις 29 Ιουλίου 2005.

  1. dora_salonica

    dora_salonica Contributor

    Δεν μου είπε κάτι που δεν ξέρω.

    Εκτός από αυτό: Responsive to anything esthetic and tasteful.

    Χαχαχαχα....

    Τα ετερώνυμα έλκονται.... 
     
  2. harnes73

    harnes73 New Member

    Exercises initiative in overcoming obstacles and difficulties. Either holds, or wishes to achieve, a position of authority in which control can be exerted over events.

    Your Stress Sources
    An emotional relationship is no longer running smoothly, has proved deeply disappointing, and is now regarded as a depressing tie. While on one hand, he would like to free himself from this attachment altogether, yet, on the other, he does not want to lose anything nor risk uncertainty and the possibility of further disappointment. These contradictory emotions aggravate him to such an extent that he tries to suppress them beneath an aloof and severe attitude.

    Your Restrained Characteristics
    Relationships rarely measure up to his high emotional expectations and his need to be made the center of things, leading to disappointment . Always has mental reservations and tends to remain emotionally isolated and unattached.

    Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity but tends to hold aloof emotionally.

    Your Desired Objective
    Considers the existing circumstances disagreeable and over-demanding. Refuses to allow anything to influence his point of view.

    Your Actual Problem
    Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, emptiness, and an unadmitted self-contempt. His refusal to admit this leads to his adopting a headstrong and defiant attitude.

    Your Actual Problem #2
    Anxiety and a restless dissatisfaction, either with circumstances or with unfulfilled emotional requirements, have produced considerable stress. He reacts by putting this down to a total lack of understanding on the part of others, and by adopting a scornful and defiant attitude.

    Ομολογω οτι με μπερδεψε λιγο, αλλα σε γενικες γραμμες αντικατοπτριζει την κατασταση στην οποια βρισκομαι.
     
  3. kali crow

    kali crow Guest

    Orderly, methodical, and self-contained. Needs the respect, recognition, and understanding of those close to him. 


    The existing situation is disagreeable. Feels lonely and uncertain as she has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and wants to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to her self-sufficiency because of the restraint she normally imposes on herself. Since she wants to demonstrate the unique quality of her own character, she tries to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal her fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize her behavior with contempt. However, beneath this assumption of indifference she really longs for the approval and esteem of others.


    Feels trapped in a distressing or uncomfortable situation and seeking some way of gaining relief. Able to achieve satisfaction from sexual activity.

    Conditions are such that she will not let herself become intimately involved without making mental reservations.

    Feels the existing circumstances are hostile and is exhausted by conflict and quarreling. Wishes to protect herself and hides her intentions to avoid exposing them to attack, so that they will be safer and easier to achieve. Careful to avoid stirring up any opposition which might endanger her plans.

    Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of her hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. She tries to escape from this by withdrawing and protecting herself with an attitude of cautious reserve. Moody and depressed.

    The unsatisfied desire to be respected, to stand out from amongst her friends, is causing some anxiety. As a result, normal gregariousness is suppressed and she refuses to allow herself to become involved, or to participate with others in their ordinary act

        το κακο μου το χαλι εχω....
     
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  4. Leykos

    Leykos Regular Member

    Απάντηση: Color Test for submission

    Ε τώρα αν σας πω ότι έχω δυσχρωματοψία θα το πιστέψετε???
     
  5. íɑʍ_Monkeץ

    íɑʍ_Monkeץ Contributor

    Your Existing Situation
    "Is strong willed and unwilling to take advice from others; however, finds herself currently in a dangerous situation which finding a solution should be top priority."

    Your Stress Sources
    "His normal flexible and stubborn attitude has become weakened because she feels overworked, tired and as if she is stuck in a rut. The situation seems helpless and is causing her to physically feel the strain, she is searching for a solution but she is unable to make a decision on how to go about making the changes."

    Your Restrained Characteristics

    "Finds satisfaction in sexual activity, but is emotionally detached which prevents her from becoming too involved."

    His confidence is low but she is unable to admit that is the reason for her avoidance of conflict. Feels it is a situation out of her control and she is making the best of it.

    "Believes her hopes and dreams are realistic and sticks to them stubbornly, even though circumstances are forcing her to compromise. Very precise in the qualities she seeks in a partner."

    Your Desired Objective
    "Is very intense person who seeks excitement and sexual stimulation. Wants others to see her as an exciting and interesting person, who is also charming and can easily influence others. Uses her charm to increase her chances of success and gain other people's trust."

    Your Actual Problem
    "Feeling tension and stress brought on by situations which are out of her control, leaves her feeling helpless, anxious, and in adequate. she escapes the situation by throwing herself into new activities and insisting she get her own way. Appears to be in control of himself, which she isn't, leading to outbursts of anger."

    Your Actual Problem #2
    Is afraid she will be held back from obtaining the things she wants leading her to act out with a hectic intensity.


    Μάλιστα...όλα αυτά εγώ;...Σε καποια σημεια πεφτει μεσα 
     
  6. pancyber

    pancyber Regular Member

    Your Existing Situation
    "Needs a peaceful and quiet environment. Desires an affectionate and faithful partner who will spoil him and treat him with importance. If he feels mistreated or a lack of attention, he may withdraw."

    γι'αυτό προσέξτε...
     
  7. sk

    sk Regular Member

    Απάντηση: Color Test for submission

    είναι αστείο πως καμμιά φορά, τα πιο "απρόσωπα" τεστ βγάζουν τις μεγαλύτερες "προσωπικές" αλήθειες!! (δεν μάθαμε κάτι καινούργιο, όπως λεει και η αγαπητή d, αλλά έχει γούστο να διαβάζεις πράγματα για σένα έτσι χύμα)


    sk (MSp)
     
  8. Απάντηση: Color Test for submission

    Your Existing Situation

    Feels there are barriers between herself and the essential things she desires.

    Your Stress Sources

    "Needs to meet people who have the same high principals and values as himself, but finds the need unfulfilled. her need to feel dominate and superior leaves her feeling isolated and does not allow for her to give freely of himself. she would like to surrender and let go, but sees that as a weakness she must not give in to. Holding back will allow her to stand out for the crowd and earn a higher status, recognized by others as unique and important."

    Your Restrained Characteristics

    "Feels she is getting less than she deserves for all her hard work; however, she makes no effort to change things and tries to make the best of the situation."

    "Finds satisfaction in sexual activity, but is emotionally detached which prevents her from becoming too involved."

    His confidence is low but she is unable to admit that is the reason for her avoidance of conflict. Feels it is a situation out of her control and she is making the best of it.

    He is being forced to be happiness and pleasure on hold for new due to her limiting circumstances.

    "Believes her hopes and dreams are realistic, but needs reassurance from others. Has strict standards when looking for a partner and wants guarantees that she will not be disappointed or lose."

    Your Desired Objective

    Seeks to be known for something she has accomplished and uses her social abilities to win people over. Emotional and sensitive and romantic.

     
    Παραλίγο να κλάψω.
    Πόσο μέσα...
    Πόσο βαθειά....
     
     
  9. Θρυαλλίς

    Θρυαλλίς Staff Member

    Your Existing Situation
    Needs excitement and constant stimulation. Willingly participates in activities that are thrilling and offer adventure.

    Your Stress Sources
    "Wants the freedom to follow her own heart, goals, and dreams and to earn the respect as a unique individual. Desires to pursue every possible opportunity without limitations or things standing in her way."

    Your Restrained Characteristics


    "Feels she is getting less than she deserves for all her hard work; however, she makes no effort to change things and tries to make the best of the situation."

    Has strong emotional demands and is picky when it comes to choosing a partner. she chooses to remain emotionally distant and uninvolved in relationships.

    His confidence is low but she is unable to admit that is the reason for her avoidance of conflict. Feels it is a situation out of her control and she is making the best of it.

    "Is emotionally demanding, especially during intimate moments, which leaves her feeling frustrated because she is unable to find a perfect union."

    Current events have her feeling forced to make bargains and put aside her own desires for now. she is able to find satisfaction and happiness through sexual activity.



    Your Desired Objective
    "If motivated, she will easily and quickly learn new skills. Is very intense person who seeks excitement and sexual stimulation. Wants others to see her as an exciting and interesting person, who is also charming and can easily influence others. Uses her charm to increase her chances of success and gain other people's trust."

    Your Actual Problem
    Longs the freedom to make her own decisions and plans without the criticism and restrictions of others. Uses her charm to deal with others and get what she wants.

    Your Actual Problem #2
    "Impressed by unique and one of a kind things, and by people with exceptional personalities. Tries to takes the characteristics she likes in other people and apply it to herself as well as coming across as a unique individual."
     
  10. Paladin

    Paladin brattiness loading....

    Your Existing Situation
    "Is lazy when it comes to further herself or her career and lacks the ambition to change things. Does not like to put to much effort into things, except sexual activity. she would rather feel comfort and security, than success."

    Your Stress Sources
    "His current situation or relationship is not up to par, but cannot improve it without help. Hides her vulnerability by holding back affection or being overly expressive. The relationship may be depressing, but the fear of losing too much keeps her around. she wants to be independent and free, but fears the future will be just as disappointing. her situation leaves her sensitive and impatience, seeking a quick escape. her restlessness may destroy the ability to concentrate."

    Your Restrained Characteristics


    "Feels she is getting less than she deserves for all her hard work; however, she makes no effort to change things and tries to make the best of the situation."

    "Emotionally withdrawn, feels forced to make compromises which makes emotional attachments difficult."

    His confidence is low but she is unable to admit that is the reason for her avoidance of conflict. Feels it is a situation out of her control and she is making the best of it.

    "Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. she is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity, as long as there is not a lot of conflict or emotional difficulty."



    Your Desired Objective
    "Wants interesting and exciting things to happen in her life. she is able to make others like him, because of her genuine concern for them. she is charming and open and makes friends easily. she can have an over-active imagination, which leads her to fantasize and daydream."

    Your Actual Problem
    "Feeling anxious and restless frustration toward current situation or unfulfilled emotional requirements are causing stress. Tries to escape into a fantasy-type environment full of sympathy, understanding, and artistic beauty."

    Your Actual Problem #2
    Longs the freedom to make her own decisions and plans without the criticism and restrictions of others. Uses her charm to deal with others and get what she wants.
     
  11. brenda

    brenda FU very much

    Color Test - Results


    Your Existing Situation
    Needs excitement and constant stimulation. Willingly participates in activities that are thrilling and offer adventure.

    Your Stress Sources
    "Looking to stand out in the crowd and wanting to keep her rank and status. her current situation is irritating her because she can't seem to find anybody out there who values the same high standards she does. she is feeling isolated and wants to give in to her carnal urges, but can't bring herself to appear weak in the eyes of others. Wants others to see her unique qualities and character but can't stand to come off as needy, so instead she has an ""I don't care"" attitude and pushing people away. she turns her back on those who criticizes her behavior, but beneath her indifference is a person who is in desperate need of approval."

    Your Restrained Characteristics


    "His desire to avoid open conflict and tension forces her to put her desires on hold, even though she is feeling restrained and uneasy."

    "Feels she is carry more than her share of problems. she is flexible and laid back, sticking to her goals and working to overcome any difficulty."

    Is bothered when her needs and desires are misunderstood and she feels there is no one to turn to or rely on. her self-centered attitude can cause her to be easily offended.

    Applies tough standards to her potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in her sex life.



    Your Desired Objective
    Is in need of immediate rest and relaxation. Longs for peace and a sense they are understood. Feels she has been treated unfairly which makes her angry. Cannot stand to stay in an environment in which she is treated unfairly and with no consideration for her feelings.

    Your Actual Problem
    Disappointed because her hopes have not come to pass and she fears coming up with new goals will only lead to further disappointment. These conflicting emotions lead to a feeling of anxiety and depression. she tries to escape into a peaceful and calm relationship which offers encouragement and protection from further disappointment.

    Your Actual Problem #2
    "Wants to be valued and respected, seeks a close and peaceful relationship with a shared respect of each other."


    Εντυπωσιακό, δεν μπορώ να πω... 
     
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  12. aethereal

    aethereal Guest

    Your Existing Situation
    Desires to be respected by others in order to gain their trust and support for her own personal gain.

    Your Stress Sources
    "Unfulfilled hopes have left her feeling uncertain and even a little fearful about the future. Needs to feel secure and avoid further disappointment; fears she will be looked over, lose her position, or lose respect. Has little hope that things will get better in time and her negative attitude leads her to place impossible demands on others or to compromise or bargain."

    Your Restrained Characteristics
    "His desire to avoid open conflict and tension forces her to put her desires on hold, even though she is feeling restrained and uneasy."

    Giving more than she is getting back and feels misunderstood and unappreciated. Feels she is being forced into compromising and even her close relationships leave her feeling emotional distant.

    Current situations have left her feeling overwhelmed and tormented. Needs to avoid further activity or demands and concentrate on relaxing and becoming emotionally sound.

    Current events have her feeling forced to make bargains and put aside her own desires for now. she is able to find satisfaction and happiness through sexual activity.


    Your Desired Objective
    "Always trying to make a good impression on others, and is constantly watching to see if she is succeeding in this. Is interested in how others react to him; this makes her feel in control. Strategically plans out ways to gain further influence over others and special recognition. Is easily distracted by the pleasingly beautiful and original."

    Your Actual Problem
    "Is disappointed and let down, feels there is no point in making new goals as they will leave her feeling the same way. Looking for friendly, pleasant relationships with others, who will further develop her intellect. she tries to escape into a fantasy world where things go her way and her desires are easier to reach."
    μάλιστα...
    ενδιαφέρουσα γνωμάτευση μέσω της προτιμησεως μου στο μπορντω,το κυπαρισσί,το μπλε,το γκρι,το καφέ και λοιπά μουντοχρώματα εν αντιθέσει με τα πορτοκαλί,κίτρινα,και τα απόλυτα μαύρα.
     
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