Color Test for submission

εμενα παντως με προβληματισε... και το ξαναεκανα σημερα το πρωι και μου εβγαλε αλλα αντ΄αλλα...η εστω τα ιδια με αλλα λογια..δεν ειμαι και πολυ σιγουρη....anyway με προβληματισε πιο πολυ.    

Your Existing Situation
"Outgoing but unpredictable and unstable. Likes things to go her way, otherwise she becomes agitated, indecisive, and fake in her activities."

Your Stress Sources
"Needs to meet people who have the same high principals and values as himself, but finds the need unfulfilled. her need to feel dominate and superior leaves her feeling isolated and does not allow for her to give freely of himself. she would like to surrender and let go, but sees that as a weakness she must not give in to. Holding back will allow her to stand out for the crowd and earn a higher status, recognized by others as unique and important."

Your Restrained Characteristics
Current situations force her into compromise and placing her own hopes and desires on hold for the time being.

Your Desired Objective
"Longs for tenderness and for a feeling of acceptance from a partner. Appreciates things that are beautiful, pleasing to the eye, and stylish."

Your Actual Problem
"Wants to be valued and respected, seeks a close and peaceful relationship with a shared respect of each other."

 

Your Existing Situation
"Needs extra attention and must feel she is very important to those around her. If she doesn't think she is being spoiled enough, she may shut herself off from others."

Your Stress Sources
"Looking to stand out in the crowd and wanting to keep her rank and status. her current situation is irritating her because she can't seem to find anybody out there who values the same high standards she does. she is feeling isolated and wants to give in to her carnal urges, but can't bring herself to appear weak in the eyes of others. Wants others to see her unique qualities and character but can't stand to come off as needy, so instead she has an ""I don't care"" attitude and pushing people away. she turns her back on those who criticizes her behavior, but beneath her indifference is a person who is in desperate need of approval."

Your Restrained Characteristics


"Feels she is getting less than she deserves for all her hard work; however, she makes no effort to change things and tries to make the best of the situation."

His confidence is low but she is unable to admit that is the reason for her avoidance of conflict. Feels it is a situation out of her control and she is making the best of it.

"Seeking to broaden her horizons and believes her hopes and dreams are realistic. Worries she may not be able to do the things she wants and needs to escape to a peaceful, quiet environment in order to restore her confidence."

Applies tough standards to her potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in her sex life.

"Emotionally withdrawn, feels forced to make compromises which makes emotional attachments difficult."



Your Desired Objective
"Longs for a loving, caring, and supportive relationship, and fanaticizes of living in perfect harmony with others. Has a strong desire for tenderness and affection and enjoys things which are artistically pleasing to the eye."

Your Actual Problem
"Is disappointed and let down, feels there is no point in making new goals as they will leave her feeling the same way. Looking for friendly, pleasant relationships with others, who will further develop her intellect. she tries to escape into a fantasy world where things go her way and her desires are easier to reach."

Your Actual Problem #2
"Impressed by unique and one of a kind things, and by people with exceptional personalities. Tries to takes the characteristics she likes in other people and apply it to herself as well as coming across as a unique individual."

 

Color Test - Results



Your Existing Situation
Needs excitement and constant stimulation. Willingly participates in activities that are thrilling and offer adventure.

Your Stress Sources
Feeling empty and isolated from others and trying to bridge the gap between herself and others. Wants to live life to the fullest and experience as much as possible. she cannot stand any restrictions or obstacles put in her way and only longs to be free.

Your Restrained Characteristics


"Current situation makes her feel unable to prove himself, but tries to make the best of things."

Is bothered when her needs and desires are misunderstood and she feels there is no one to turn to or rely on. her self-centered attitude can cause her to be easily offended.

"Seeking to broaden her horizons and believes her hopes and dreams are realistic. Worries she may not be able to do the things she wants and needs to escape to a peaceful, quiet environment in order to restore her confidence."

Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.



Your Desired Objective

"Longs for tenderness and for a feeling of acceptance from a partner. Appreciates things that are beautiful, pleasing to the eye, and stylish."

Your Actual Problem
"Prefers to be left in peace and avoids arguments, confrontation, and conflicts."

Your Actual Problem #2
Needs to find a stable and peaceful environment which will free her of the worries that are preventing her from achieving the things she wants.



έλα ρεεεεε... 

 

Your Existing Situation
"Needs extra attention and must feel he is very important to those around him. If he doesn't think he is being spoiled enough, he may shut himself off from others."

Your Stress Sources
"Has high standards and wants to make friends with those who have equally high standards; however, he has been unsuccessful in building these types of relationships. He is feeling under appreciated and his self-esteem is damaged because of it. He is uncomfortable with the situation and wishes to escape, but refuses to make compromises or lower his standards. Puts off resolving his problems because he afraid of the conflicts it may cause. In order to feel secure, he needs to feel appreciated by others so they will do what he asks of them and respect his opinions"

Your Restrained Characteristics


"Self-centered, tends to take this personally and is easily offended."

Is bothered when his needs and desires are misunderstood and he feels there is no one to turn to or rely on. His self-centered attitude can cause him to be easily offended.

Applies tough standards to his potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in his sex life.

Is bothered when his needs and desires are misunderstood and he feels there is no one to turn to or rely on. His self-centered attitude can cause him to be easily offended.

Applies tough standards to his potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in his sex life.



Your Desired Objective
"He feels life in general is handing him to many difficult and unpleasant things, but no one else seems to agree with him. He is resistant to joining in with others and want to be left alone."

Your Actual Problem
"Struggles with his need for respect and admiration from others; feels he needs to make a name for himself and stand out from the crowd. He acts out by insisting he be the center of attention, and refuses to step back, stand down, or take on a minor, insignificant role."

Your Actual Problem #2
"Feeling tension and stress brought on by situations which are out of his control, leaves him feeling helpless, anxious, and in adequate. He tends to act out as a way of covering up his short comings and blames other people for his failures."
Εσεις τι συμπερασμα βγαλατε απο αυτο περι υποτακτικοτητας.Το τεστ λεει τη αληθεια ειμαι εγωκεντρικο σαν ατομο και ψωναρα στο να τραβαει την προσοχη των αλλων.Αλλα παλι το αισθημα της υποταγης νιωθω.Πως συμβιβαζονται αυτα?

 

"Wishes she was more spontaneous and impulsive, but holds back because she needs things to be in order, rational, and clearly defined."

Εμ,όχι... Το ανάποδο

 

Καλό είναι το spontaneous and impulsive.. Να μη θες το αναποδο

 

Και το κώλο-τεστ δουλεύει μια χαρά (φορ σαπμίσιο)

 

Το πρόβλημα με τα κάθε είδους τεστ, πέρα από τις όποιες εγγενείς αδυναμίες, που μπορεί να υπάρχουν σε αυτά και όχι κατ' ανάγκην επειδή είναι αδούλευτα, άψαχτα, πρόχειρα ή εκ του πονηρού, είναι η δυνατότητα και η ικανότητα της ερμηνείας του εξαγομένου τους είτε από το ίδιο το άτομο είτε από τον όποιο αξιολογητή ή συνεργάτη ή θεράποντα...
Το κλασικό "στον χώρο" bdsm test είναι ή πιο τρανή απόδειξη (κάτι σε "είμαι η Ελενίτσα και είμαι σούμπμισιβ" ή είμαι ο Αρκάγαθος και είμαι μάστουρας")...
Βεβαίως και υπάρχουν και χειρότερα (όχι τεστ, άλλα πράματα), ουουουου, της μουρλής γίνεται...
Να προτιμάτε κάτι σε πιο απλό, π.χ "πόσο Ολυμπιακός είσαι" ή "ξες να διαλέγεις πράματα στον μανάβη"..?

 

Αυτό λέω! Ξέρεις πόσες φορές το βρωμοστομα μου με έχει μπλέξει;; Αλλά δεν εύχομαι να γίνω c3po!  

 

Κι όλα αυτά λόγω του προβλήματος κάποιων να έχουν τη δυνατότητα και την ικανότητα ερμηνείας του εξαγομένου των τεστ αυτών...
Άρα η λύση είναι αν κάνουμε τεστ να κάνουμε εκείνα τα τέστ που αυτοί οι κάποιοι έχουν τη δυνατότητα και την ικανότητα ερμηνείας του εξαγομένου των τέστ αυτών.
Άρα δε μας φταίει το κάθε τεστ...
Το πρόβλημα μας είναι αν μας "αρέσει" ή αν το καταλαβαίνουμε "κάποιοι"...      

 

@D Q Juls

Ούτε άρα ούτε "φταίει" ούτε "αρέσει" ούτε "καταλαβαίνουμε"...
Θέμα διάθεσης για την πάρτη μας είναι...
Τεσπά...

 

Αν μου έβγαζε "δεν ξες την τύφλα σου" θα ήταν ένα έγκυρο τεστ.